WHY THE OATH AND INVESTMENT

WHY THE OATH AND THE INVESTMENT! (A true life story)
A must read for everyone (2 story, 1powerful message and advise)
Chidinma meet Bolaji in junior high school and they both find interest in each other, it continue till they got to high school, Bolaji decided that since they are mature and understand love, at age 18 and chidinma been 17 year old. They start having secret relationship and they started doing unimaginable things that is meant for couples and what eventually killed the camel was when Bolaji brought up the idea of blood oath, and at first chidinma know nothing about blood oath and the effect. You will say why didn't she make enquiry from elders about it, but her craziness for love didn't allow her do such, rather she allowed her emotions decide for her and the blood oath was taken and it read
Bolaji said : today marks the day our love stand strong and if you chidinma ever leave me, u will not have peace of mind, any guy u date will be a total failure and you will be a dumping ground for guys and chidinma said amen to it without ❓questioning it, and here is chidinma own curse
Bolaji if u ever leave me, you will be a disgrace to your family, you will be childless and you will not leave above #35,000 spend and leave in your life. After this they cut each hand and lick their blood and hug each other. After 1year  chidinma got admission into a federal university and she fell in love with a  cute and intelligent guy, while her boyfriend is still struggling with jamb and Waec reseat, chidinma develop attitude for bolaji and she telling her that the guy is a parasites and can't date someone who is still struggling with waec and jamb and I can't wait for him because I am in year2 and here he is fighting two exam body. This continue for a year and bolaji decided to visit her in her school risking his life without his parents knowing is where about and getting to her lodge bolaji saw another guy lying down in chidinma bed and as a Yoruba guy with respect greeted him and the guy ask who are u looking for and he said chidinma and the cute guy said that she is bathing, suddenly chidinma came out saying to her cute boyfriend "baby I will show you what I am made of in our next round and suddenly chidinma saw him and was extremely angry and ask him why can't he call her before coming to see her and me giving me u my address doesn't mean u will come anytime u desire and less I forget this is my boyfriend and baby please meet my high school boyfriend I told u about, chuks on his wrapped tower around his waist said chairman sup and extending his hands for shake, right there bolaji was shock and speechless and tears dripping from his eyes.

Chuks excuse them both and went to the window to hears their discussion, without chidinma knowing the danger ahead of her. Bolaji in tears remembering her the oath the curses and chidinma said baby boo that is just a fantasy and we will children then and we know nothing we where doing so cut the crap and find someone who will treat you with love and bolaji said chidinma I sacrifice myself to make sure u attend university, I work two job as a school leaver, cleaners and party Walter and the money I get I send it to you to make sure you enjoy yourself in school and still use the rest to take care of my widow mother and my younger sister and is because of you I can't enter school and you know the kind of family u come from, you have 6younger ones and you are the lucky one to be in university and chidinma quietly shout him up and said it makes know difference and men who #millions of naira and yet they don't marry her so what are you feeling and I will pay you all that you have done and God will give you grace to move on.

You invested in me doesn't warranty me marrying you and I see that age is passing me by and you have stayed 2years at home and u finish high school at 19 and I am now 20 and when will u finish your medicine and surgery of 8years and by then I will 29 and what is the chance that you will get admission nor talk of passing your waec said chidinma and Bolaji said so automatically you have lost hope in me, chidinma look into his sucked water tears and said yes sweetheart I have and can't settle for less.

Bolaji left the lodge with tears and head back home, in the bus, bolaji could not help everything he saw, the words he from his girlfriend and he got home late at night, and his mother storm on him for coming home late cause she is a discipline mother but never care to understand her son feeling from day one.

Bolaji couldn't not bear the pain, the heartbreak, the wasted years and the investment, so what did bolaji (like they say that we know how strong a man or woman is by how they handle tough situation that is enough to end your life)  .
Bolaji return from work with his salary of #45000 and drop it at the sitting room table and took a pen and paper and wrote his last word and it state

  Dear mum and chidinma
You both are the most important personality in my life, but mum you are the cause of my life and anytime I want to share my problem with you, it will end up to boy pls later am tired you  gave my sisters time and attention well that I am not against but I am sad that you left me to be on my own just because I am a boy and you allow your friends brainwash you to leave me that I am a boy and boys knows how to take care of themselves so you abandoned your responsibility.
Chidinma the woman I love, I sacrifice my life and invest all to make sure that you are happy and I be the best husband you will ever have and the best dad to our unborn baby ,but too bad is a dead dream and I will leave it to God. But remember that what goes around comes back around. See you in the promise land and I don't know if God will show me mercy to heaven.
   Love you mum and my sweetie chidinma.

Bolaji suddenly went to his room and suffocate himself to snipers misquote killer and their lies his helpless body.
The mother came back and saw the letter and cash and suddenly Smell the snipper in his room and rush to his room and found his son helpless body.

Chidinma heard the dead of bolaji and she was shock but didn't move her not until her cute boyfriend suddenly invite her for lunch and he said to her, Dear I am happy being with you but I have notice that you are carrying curse and my pastor have warn me but I have plans to leave u as I am graduating ,though you are good in bed and make a good wife, but I am sorry I can't marry you, I just use you to past time. I am so sorry right there, chidinma life became reality and she knows that her life is about to crumble.”. She Ran to her pastor and the pastor told her to go ask for bolaji forgiveness but she weep and said sir he is dead and the pastor said case close, that this is between spirit and physical matter that is only God that can solve it.
Chidinma life became empty and nothing she does prosper and as we are speaking she has two kids from two different men and still struggling to graduate, she is leaving from hand to mouth.. At age 21 she has looked like a lady in her 50ths,chidinma have know choice than to drop out of university and retire with prostitution and dump her children to her mother to take of and her younger ones are street nuisance.
    What a sad painful story chidinma told me to tell the word!

   Chidinma life advice to all ladies
Don't ever take an oath with anyone no matter what he says
Don't ever let your emotions control you
Don't ever collect anything from guys you know that you will not date nor marry
Don't ever listen to friends and don't date cute guys cause majority of them are heart breakers nor materialism.
Be close to God and respect the guy who never ask you for anything, and do anything to make you happy.
Don't allow anyone invest in you when you know what he is up to (marriage)
Always define your relationship and don't allow anyone take you for granted.

SenGin advise to guys....
Don't ever invest in a girl in school because once she graduate she will shun you, it is happening
Don't over love a girl and don't dare take any oath .
Any girl that don't respect your hustle don't open up to her
Don't allow girl cause trouble between you and your best friend. Be wise
Don't ever beat any girl, rather walk away from her.
Don't be too jealous and control your temper.
Learn to be creative and lover of children, cause this will make you a good father.
Don't ever insult your girlfriend family or ex boyfriend if you try it then you are sick.. And ladies run away from such.
Treat your girlfriend younger ones like your blood sister and brother, girls love and I do that a lot to any girlfriend I will have.
Be yourself and be straight forward and discipline person.

SenGin MAD-T